3.30.2008

Word of the Day

(I wonder how many of my papers fell into this category... lol)




An academic work passed off as scholarly yet researched entirely on Wikipedia.

"An A on my English paper? That's a fine piece of Wikidemia!'

3.29.2008

Pregnancy films like 'Juno' skip message, go for the humor

A really interesting article form USA Today:


"Pregnancy films like 'Juno' skip message, go for the humor
Updated 1/20/2008 10:39 PM |  Comments 11  |  Recommend 7E-mail | Print |
Belly laughs: Juno (with Ellen Page above), Knocked Up and Waitress all find their main characters with unplanned pregnancies.
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Belly laughs: Juno (with Ellen Page above),Knocked Up and Waitress all find their main characters with unplanned pregnancies.
"I'm staying pregnant," Ellen Page announces with an air of defiance as the 16-year-old title character in Juno, the current sleeper hit. Then, in often humorous episodes, audiences follow Juno through her plight — telling her parents, finding an adoptive couple, going to high school pregnant and enduring the ups and downs of her relationship with the baby's father.
In a span of about six months, Hollywood has given audiences three movies, each an endearing mix of humor and sentimentality, in which the main characters embrace pregnancy in less-than-ideal circumstances.
A few months earlier, moviegoers watched the unhappily married Jenna (Keri Russell) in Waitress deliver a baby whose arrival she had dreaded. Once the baby is born, she leaves her overbearing lunk of a husband and settles happily into single motherhood.
And in one of the summer's biggest hits, Knocked Up, a career woman in her late 20s (Katherine Heigl) decides to go through with her pregnancy, the product of a one-night encounter with a jovial slacker (Seth Rogen). By the movie's end, the two become a couple, joined by the birth of their child.
Movies in previous generations featuring unplanned pregnancies tended to have a tragic quality, presented a bit like soap opera (1959's Blue Denim, 1949's Not Wanted and 1946's To Each His Own are a few examples) or the stuff of grim, formulaic comedy (1995's Nine Months).
Today, the impending, though unplanned, birth of a baby is fodder for comedy, romance and unexpected happiness.
Women no longer 'victims'
"This is a sea change," says Leonard Maltin, film historian for Entertainment Tonight. "It reflects what's going on in the world, which is that women no longer need to feel like victims, even if something as dramatic as this has happened. For decades the very phrase 'unwanted pregnancy' was a synonym for soap opera. There was no question what kind of film you were going to see: It was going to be weepy. That has changed enormously. We're now open enough in our willingness to deal with it and show that we can even laugh at it. These attitudes are in the zeitgeist, and the smarter, hipper movies tap into that."
What has changed over the years to make inadvertently expectant mothers the source of such optimistic expectations?
"It reflects a shift in morality and acceptance of young women who are not married having sex lives," says Jeanine Basinger, chair of film studies at Wesleyan University and author of The Star Machine. "There is a difference in the cultural climate. The acceptance of keeping and raising a child if you're unmarried, or meeting and choosing the adoptive parents and discussing it openly, is a modern phenomenon."
Adds Maltin: "The reason these films resonate with audiences is that we can all relate to them."
Audiences particularly related to Knocked Up, a summer blockbuster that grossed a hefty $148.8 million. Since opening last month, Juno is drawing large audiences and has taken in $85.4 million, which qualifies it as a bona fide art-house hit. And it's on the short list for Oscar nominations, to be announced Tuesday. Waitress, which opened in May and was made on a shoestring, earned a modest $19.1 million but was a big film festival favorite.
The stories each have an uplifting quality. In Waitress, Russell's character and her young daughter go off hand in hand in a sweetly lilting ending, after what began as a rather grim tale. In Knocked Up, audiences walk out having a sense that the baby will be loved and well taken care of. In Juno, the baby is eagerly adopted by a warm-hearted woman (Jennifer Garner) who has been yearning to be a mother.
The protagonists in each of the films are endearing and smart. Rather than being portrayed as victims, they are all take-charge heroines with heart.
"What's interesting is the sweetness that they're bringing to these stories," Basinger says. "It's still the same old motherhood story. Once you remove the social stigma of the unwed mother, things change."
In movies of past decades, things were not so full of sweetness and light. The tabloid-style titles —Girl in Trouble (1963), The Shame of Patty Smith (1962), Damaged Goods (1961) and You've Ruined Me, Eddie(1959) — focus on tragedy and disgrace.

Delivering more hopeful stories
Even more recent films, such as 1996's Citizen Ruth and 1982's Fast Times at Ridgemont High, positioned unplanned pregnancies in a grim light.
"Generally speaking, in the old movies, if they were going to tell the story, it was darker and couched in sympathetic terms toward the pregnant woman," Basinger says. "But these days, the audience doesn't come in and have to be talked out of being judgmental. The audience is living with these issues. And with all the violent films out, people are finding some relief in these more human stories."
Judd Apatow, writer/director of Knocked Up (and The 40-Year-Old Virgin), agrees.
"The reason why people like these movies, and a common thread between them, is that people are happy to get a break and see stories which treasure the idea of children," Apatow says. "Especially because there are a lot of things happening in the world today that are very dark and that don't value human life. Children give you hope.
"In Waitress, when she walks away at the end with her child, I bawl. It's powerful and hopeful. "
But as life-affirming as each of these movies is, none of the stories follows the traditional path of a man and woman falling in love, marrying and having a child.
"I was just trying to present something that I had not seen before in movies or television," Apatow says. "My thought was about two people who don't seem to be a good couple being forced to give it a try. I never thought in terms of not keeping the baby because it went against my idea for the entire movie."
Apatow and the filmmakers associated with the other films deny any kind of political or social agenda. Their goal: create entertaining stories.
It's not surprising to learn that two of the three were written by young women. The late Adrienne Shelly wroteWaitress when she was 38, and Diablo Cody wrote Juno at 27.
"When I read Juno, every time I thought I knew where the movie was going, it completely surprised me," says Jason Reitman, who directed the film. "The main thing I got from the screenplay was the evolution of the American family. If there's a trend right now it's about acceptance. What we're struggling with right now politically has nothing to do with adoption or abortion at the end of the day. What we're struggling with is open-mindedness. These are a string of films in which the filmmakers are not passing judgment on their characters."

Abortion as an internal debate
In Juno, Page goes to an abortion clinic but walks away. "I was thinking I'd just nip it in the bud," she says at first. Then, a bit later, in the film's distinctive teen-speak, she says: "I was thinking I could, like, have the baby and give it to somebody who totally needs it. … Maybe they'll, like, canonize me for being totally selfless."
Juno producer Lianne Halfon says the film seemed to underscore people's already established opinions on abortion.
"When we read the script, one of the things we most responded to was the fact that it discussed teenage pregnancy and abortion without seeming to land on either side of the debate," Halfon says. "The thing we were trying for, and it was delicate to do, was have her decision be uninfluenced by any debate, except an internal one."
Halfon acknowledges that when she and the filmmakers were initially seeking financial backing for the film, the topic of abortion was off-putting.
"When we were first looking for financiers, the discussion of abortion and the fact that she seemed flip, people saw as a hot-button issue," Halfon says. "The combination of the dialogue and a pregnant teenager together with the word 'comedy,' people couldn't see how it would all come together.
"But this movie not only embraces the pregnancy, it embraces that she's a sexual being. And that's really unusual."
Michael Roiff, producer of Waitress, stresses how he and Shelly, who also directed, wanted to tell a story that wasn't predictable.
"She treated sort of taboo subjects without the kid gloves," Roiff says. "She just didn't want to make another tired indie film. Adrienne wrote this while she was pregnant. She was feeling all these things, and she thought it was great material. Like 'Is it OK not to be excited? Is it OK to be nervous?'
"We're taught to be quiet about these things. These things don't show up in the real world, and therefore they aren't echoed in film. We all have things we aren't excited about that we don't know how to get rid of and aren't willing to embrace. So it's a kind of universal story about having an obstacle in your life that no one else sees as an obstacle."
An agenda opposing abortion rights? Not a factor, Roiff says.
"It was just a lot more interesting to see her struggle against something," he says. "It was more interesting because she was fighting against the pregnancy the entire film, but she didn't take the route that would have essentially made that easier for her."
It's about art, not political statements, each of the filmmakers insists.
"People try to politicize these movies," Apatow says. "But they're all just human stories of people in very difficult situations. And we all root for people to do the right thing. That's why they're fun to watch. They're all women dealing with pregnancies happening at a moment when their relationships aren't working.
"But how their relationships aren't working is something completely different in each movie. And each version is completely interesting. I'm a big fan of all of them. You want everything to work out for Katherine Heigl and Keri Russell and Ellen Page. You're hoping that their lives will work out and that they will do well by the child."

Ever mindful of the audience
Still, none of these filmmakers is wearing blinders. The pitfalls and problems of unwanted pregnancies are not shied away from in each of the movies.
"All these movies present how difficult it is to be in this situation," Apatow says. "I'm sure there's room out there for the same type of movie where everything goes terribly wrong and it's tragic. I'm sure someone will make that movie. But it won't be me. I don't need to be that guy."
Apatow is of the mind that the majority of moviegoers want to escape the harsh realities of contemporary life.
"After working hard all week, people don't need to go to the movies on Saturday night and watch someone deciding whether to abort a fetus," he says. "They want to laugh and have a good time and see a story that lifts their spirits and gives them hope. I can watch a more thoughtful documentary on the subject to enlighten myself. I wouldn't look to the maker of 40-Year-Old Virgin to teach me about all sides of the abortion crisis.
"I'm first in line to see the Mike Leigh movie about the abortionist (Vera Drake). But I'm trying to tell stories that make people feel better about their lives. That's why I like all these movies. It's fun to see a story that's handled honestly where you see people trying to do right by each other."

http://www.usatoday.com/life/movies/news/2008-01-20-pregnancy-culture-shift_N.htm

3.28.2008

Halo Effect

A neat phenomenon similar to putting someone on a pedestal:

"The halo effect or halo error is a cognitive bias in which our judgments of a person’s character can be influenced by our overall impression of him or her. It can be found in a range of situations—from the courtroom to the classroom and in everyday interactions. The halo effect was given its name by psychologist Edward Thorndike and since then, several researchers have studied the halo effect in relation to attractiveness, and its bearing on the judicial and educational systems."


3.27.2008

Word of the Day



1)to be completely enamored with someone/something.
2) the flighty exciting feeling you get when you think about/see the object of your affection.
3) romantically excited (i.e.: aroused)
4) the ever increasing acceleration of heartbeat and body temperature as a result of being engulfed amidst the exhilaration and joy of being/having a romantic entity in someone's life.

When he smiled at her, the rush of warm, fuzzy, excited sensations that filled her made her realize she was completely twitterpated with this man.

3.24.2008

Word of the Day

(I love these type of questions!)

Urban Word of the Day
www.urbandictionary.com

March 24, 2008: quick question

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=quick+question&defid=2133220

A question that usually requires a long answer. A close relative of [stupid question] and [rhetorical question].

Joan: I have a quick question for you. How do you solve for "x" in this complex differential equation?

Bob: Uhhhhhh...

3.23.2008

Manswers

A great website with gems like the one I put up yesterday about lethal alcohol and the anus....


3.22.2008

2 Beers in Your Bum is Lethal...


(Now you know...)


Q. How many beers would it take to kill you if you drank them through your butt?

A. Because the alcohol is bypassing your liver, drinking one beer through your butt can kill you!

Read more http://www.kgbanswers.com/how-many-beers-would-it-take-to-kill-you-if-you-drank-them-through-your-butt/4210720#ixzz24R2TZPH5

3.20.2008

Earl as Dave on Alvin & the Chipmunks

Oh dear!!!

"Jason Michael Lee (born April 25, 1970) is an American actor, comedian and professional skateboarder, best known for his roles as the title character on the NBCtelevision series, My Name is EarlSyndrome in the film The IncrediblesDave Seville in the Alvin and the Chipmunks films, and his work with director Kevin Smith.[1] Lee is also the cofounder and co-owner (with Chris Pastras) of Stereo Skateboards, a company that sponsors team riders and is primarily concerned with the manufacture of skateboard decks."

3.19.2008

Microsoft Skydrive

More info on skydrive :-)

The latest in the line of user-friendly Microsoft products free to use is Skydrive, it's a virtual file storage that can save up to 5gb of data and be shared or kept private.

This one is actually quite clever, you sign in with your windows live ID and you can access the files you put on it from anywhere, or you can share the files with friends.

"Store files for yourself
Using multiple computers? No problem. Store and access your personal files from anywhere online.

Share files with friends
Sharing with friends, co-workers, or family is easy when you all add and update files in a shared folder.

Share files with everybody
Some ideas are too good to keep to yourself. Share them in a public folder that only you can update."

I really wish this had been around when I was in University, it would have been sooo helpful!

http://skydrive.live.com/

3.17.2008

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

May there always be work for your hands to do;

May your purse always hold a coin or two;

May the sun always shine on your windowpane;

May a rainbow be certain to follow each rain;

May the hand of a friend always be near you;

May God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you.

Song of the Week

"The Blessing" - The Electrics

May your life in this world be a happy one
May the sun be warm and may the skies be blue
May each storm that comes your way
Clear the air for a brighter day
May the saints and saviour watch over you

As you make your way through this old world of ours
As you see the beauty of the morning dew
As you smell the summer flowers
As you pass away the hours
May the saints and saviour watch over you

As you spend your time with your friends and family
As you see the warmth and love they have for you
As you see the wars and hate
That others radiate
May the saints and saviour watch over you

The Electrics

In honour of St. Paddy's Day impending arrival I wanted to post a link to the discography for one of the best Celtic music bands EVER... well imho... this band, called "The Electrics" is a celtic, ska-ish, awesome Christian music band who I have been listening to for upwards of 10 years now, my favourite song is "The Blessing" which may be the Song of the Week this week, it's found on their self-titled album "The Electrics.

The rest of their music can be found here:


3.16.2008

Word of the Day

(The example for Meaning B is soooo funny!)


Urban Word of the Day
www.urbandictionary.com



A) A phrase that seems to simply state the obvious but actually implies helplessness.

B) A phrase that seems to simply state the obvious but actually means "it will be what it is," as in "it ain't gonna change, so deal with it or don't." See also [tough shit], [oh well], [cry me a river] and [tfb].

Meaning A
J: I can't believe the price of gas!

B: It is what it is.

Meaning B
J: It troubles me that you continue to put [cyanide] in my [Yoohoo] even after I've asked you to stop.

B: It is what it is.

3.15.2008

Life Advice

Read books that you enjoy...

Play with simple things...

Do whatever you want whenever you want...

Look for affection when you need it...

Get serious once in a while...

Forget about diets...

Show some affection

Get angry once in a while...

Change your look...

Be happy, above all, regardless what your challenges may be.

Live simply.
Love generously.
Care deeply.
Speak kindly.

Leave the rest to God!

"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."

3.14.2008

Word of the Day

(I thought boo was my sister... I'm confused!)

Urban Word of the Day
http://www.urbandictionary.com/

March 14, 2008: boo

1. Boyfriend or girlfriend
2. Word used to scare people

1. Can you handle me? If you can't you ain't gonna be my boo.

2. Guy: BOO!
Guy 2: Holy sh*t!

3.13.2008

Windows SkyDrive

This is a clever invention by Microsoft, it's a SkyDrive, a virtual storage of up to 5gb linked to your Microsoft hotmail account. Also it's accessible by friends (well portions you decide on) so it's like a virtual ftp. A very clever idea indeed!

The e-mail read:

"Ever want to show pictures to friends or family when you're not at home? Or edit a document you're working on when you're out of town?

With Windows Live™ SkyDrive, you can store up to 5GB of files that you can access from virtually anywhere! All you need is a computer and an Internet connection. And your information is protected too – it can only be accessed using your Live ID username and password.

It's up to you who sees what, and SkyDrive is integrated with other Windows Live services. No more worrying about losing your documents or misplacing a flash drive."

skydrive.live.com/

3.11.2008

Word of the Day

(hehe awesome!)

Urban Word of the Day
www.urbandictionary.com

March 11, 2008: cheers big ears

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cheers+big+ears&defid=2779847


An [Australianism] associated with drinking: When you're about to take a drink, you say "cheers big ears". There are two usual responses: "same goes big nose," or "up your nose with a rubber hose."

(At the pub after raising your glass)

You - "Cheers big ears"

Me - "same goes big nose"

(Followed by a wink and a big long quenching gulp of your drink)

3.08.2008

Word of the Day

(This would be very unfortunate!)

Urban Word of the Day
www.urbandictionary.com
March 08, 2008: collateral misinformation

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=collateral+misinformation&defid=2903349


When someone alters a [Wikipedia] article to win a specific argument, anyone who reads the false article before the "error" is corrected suffers from collateral misinformation.

I changed the scientific classification of red foxes last night in order to win an argument with Judy. I hope some stupid High School student didn't suffer from collateral misinformation.

3.07.2008

Oh J-Lo.... *sigh*

SERIOUSLY!!!!!

"Jennifer Lopez's twin masseuse
4 weeks ago 04th Mar 11:35

Jennifer Lopez has hired a masseuse and colour therapist for her newborn twins.

The 'Do It Well' singer and husband Marc Anthony have also reportedly ordered two Shetland ponies for son Max and daughter Emme, along with diamond-encrusted rattles, 600-count Egyptian cotton for the baby's cots and designer babygros for the nursery wing in her Los Angeles home.

A source said: "Jennifer has gone all-out to give the twins an amazing childhood. She hired a colour therapist to paint the nursery a beautiful aquamarine and light blue - colours which are supposed to have intelligence-boosting properties.

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"She listened to classical music all through her pregnancy and is now having music piped through to the nursery to help relax the babies. She has hired a professional baby masseuse to come in once or twice a week."

The 38-year-old star, who has allegedly turned into a "germaphobe" since becoming a mother, has also reportedly banned flowers and presents from the twins' nursery to ensure it remains spotless.

The source added to Britain's Daily Mirror newspaper: "She is also paranoid about hygiene. The twins' wing is totally sterile and all flowers and presents are stored in a separate area so they don't contaminate the babies' area. It may sound excessive but she only has her kids' best interests at heart and wants to give them the start in life she never had."

Earlier this week, it was claimed Jennifer is so terrified about the fraternal twins being exposed to germs she asks guests to use a special antiseptic hand lotion and don surgical masks before they enter the nursery."

3.06.2008

Word of the Day

(I think I may be one of these hehe)

Urban Word of the Day
www.urbandictionary.com

March 06, 2008: sleep slut

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sleep+slut&defid=1369199

One who sleeps frequently and is able to accumulate excess hours of sleep above beyond the mean. Sleep sluts are able to fall asleep indiscriminately and value sleep above all else.

Within minutes of boarding the commuter train Mark was fast asleep. Marks sleep slut powers were legendary in that he was always able to wake before his stop.

3.05.2008

Ice Pictures

These are incredible pictures of ice taken in Versoix in Switzerland. The water in the background in the Leman Lake.